Anonymous asked: maybe he was really just leading me on i don't know.. how could i be so stupid for believing it all.?how could i think that he would fall in love with me? i'm thinking of him all the time, i really am in love with him but maybe i'm just a dumb girl who is fooled. idk what to do anymore.. sorry for wasting your time again.. i feel so comfortable to talk to you. thank you so much for being here for me lovellovelove. x confused girl
Stop thinking that you’re wasting my time because you’re not!
I get that this will scare you. But it’s normal. I’ve been there too. People need time and space to adjust them to the new situation. A relationship is one of them. Getting attached and losing a part of your freedom is a big step for a teenager. I get why you’re so insecure, i’m just like you :) if you want to know the real answer, you should ask him! But don’t be too worried too short, because this will scare him!
Anonymous asked: and he said i will. but the convo was so dry.. i'm starting to think that he thinks he made a mistake en didn't knew what he was saying.. but the doesn't dare to say it to me because he knows it gonna hurt me so badly omg. i'm so confused, sad and mad at the same time because i feel so stupid.. i kept looking at his last seen and it was driving me insane so i deleted his number and now i'm going crazy because we still haven't talked
see last post
Anonymous asked: hi girl it's me just wanted to say sorry that i come again with my problems i really don't want to waste your time but idk anyone else we can help me =(, so here i am again =(. yesterday he texted me but he fell in sleep. after that we didn´t talked at all! so i thought you know let me talk to him and put some effort in this! because he always texted me first i never started convo by myself. so he said, sorry i slept so short i´m brackish, so i said it´s okay take your rest <3.
see last post
Anonymous asked: omg, hi! i just want to thank you again!!!!! i told him that i really like him and he said he likes me too! but first he wants me to enjoy my life because this year i will turn 18! how sweeet! long story short we are now working on a relationship step for step! all because of you <3. thank you so muchhh! lots of loveeeeeeeeeee! <3.
This made my day! Let me know how it works out xx
Anonymous asked: I think my boyfriend is starting so see all the flaws I see in myself. I really don't want to be here anymore like damn. Sorry for bothering you
Stop thinking that you’re bothering me because you aren’t!
The thing is, you’re insecure about yourself. You hate yourself. But that’s how YOU see yourself. And not how people see you. But what’s happening with your boyfriend is the fact that he’s seeing that you hate yourself. He’s seeing that you’re insecure about yourself and guys don’t like that. Guys want girls who are confident with themselves. They want someone who’s emotionally stable because they can’t handle otherwise. They’re young and they’re still dealing with their own problems which makes it a lot more difficult to deal with someone else their problems too.
How do you fix this? Talk about it. Tell him that you’re being distant lately because your insecurity is affecting your relationship. Tell him you’ll work on it. But don’t you dare to say that he doesn’t think you’re beautiful. Don’t put the blame on him, éver (in this case). Because i’m a 100% sure that he loves you and that he thinks you’re amazing. Only the thought in your head that says ontherwise, is ruining your realtionship.
You’ll get through this!
Anonymous asked: Do you love me? Please love me, I love you
I love every follower :) xx
Anonymous asked: i love your tumblr omg! you are so amazing! I really want to read your book btw! and thanks for the advice i don't think i could tell him now, but i will tell him when i'm ready!. YOU ARE GREAT!!! your advice just gives me the strength to take a step. Thank you so much! i hope i can do something for you too in the future! lots of love <333
Thank you so much! This means a lot to me. Love you xx